Showing posts with label philosophy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label philosophy. Show all posts

Thursday, February 25, 2021

Ex of The Ex

Could you be friends with your Ex- boyfriends/ Ex- girlfriends?

Life is interesting, there's no forever friends nor enemies.

As social media gets our relationships exposed to the internet, and tells us the mutual connections we have, the world becomes smaller. With Linkedin, Twitter, and Facebook, you could even come across your ex's Ex. You could start chit chating with them if you are bold enough and if you like it. Somehow, you may find a friend that is similar to you because your ex probably chooses you because you're similar type as his/her ex. That's why life is a circle, it connects us all.

I am an easy going and open minded person, so I don't refuse being friends with anyone. Anyone could inspire me in some way and I appreciate that. I am honest to myself and my feelings, and if something doesn't feel right, I probably won't do it. After all, it all comes to our own peace, happiness, and perceptions towards life.  

Love yourself first before you know how to love others. Don't torture yourselves with negative emotions.

Treat yourself nicely and pursue your passions, then good luck, opening gates, and positive energy will come to you. 



Monday, May 11, 2020

Waking Up

photo by Lilly

Some people might hope that, in their own lives, someone would appear like a lamp who can give one or two advises of guidance to them about life.

After experiencing the ups and downs of life, I discovered that much of the wisdom of life is actually hidden in the bits and pieces of life.

If the rooster calls the sky, it will shine. If the rooster does not call the sky, it will still shine. The key is not if the rooster has called the sky to shine, the key is that who has waken up from the call. 

When one wakes up, a day is passed; when one does not wake up, a whole life is passed.

Comprehension:

Waking up every day is a new life.

Living healthy is the most important and happiest thing in the world.
Take advantage of the sunshine, go out for a walk! The grass, the trees, the flowers and the birds in this world are all beautiful. Don't let this wonderful time pass.
 
#healthandhappiness #life wisdom
 
 
Here are some songs I made to brighten your day!
 

 
 

 

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Monday, May 4, 2020

An Inspiring Short Story of Fox



A fox found a nest of chickens and the fox was too fat to drill in, so he was hungry for three days and finally entered.

After a full meal, he couldn't get out because he’s too fat, so he had to be hungry again for three days to get out. Finally he lamented that he made himself busy due to being addicted in the process of munching.

Comprehension:

Isn't life like this?

When the stripe comes, the stripe goes, we come to the world naked and will leave world naked as well. No one can take away the wealth and merits of a lifetime of business.

It is difficult to buy back youth with the money made by youth;

It is difficult to buy back the life with the money earned by life;

It is difficult to buy back time with the money earned with time;

Even if you use your life to get the money of the world, you can't buy your life with the money of the world

Therefore, it is important to learn to rest and be happy. 

Monday, April 9, 2018

Story Tellers

There’re always two sides of a story so be more understanding and less judgmental.
The purpose of life is to fully extend our potentials and have as few regrets as possible!




Thursday, March 8, 2018

Maturity

Maturity is the ability to accept ambiguity and to postpone gratification - quoted from Sigmund Freud @ Kantaro Sweet tooth Salary Man :)

Saturday, February 24, 2018

真相 Truth


(Chinese/English Below)

我身邊的人們總説看世糊塗一點,你就會快樂一點。這是真的嗎?

我是個對機會說好及對真相好奇的人。要裝傻實在需要360度的高智能。精明變成我的習慣,在香港這繁忙城市長大的我絕對不是一個懞懂的女孩。初中從同學們的人際關係中已知社會品流複雜多變。努力半工半讀的我也年紀輕輕打過超出十五份工,工作交際能力中等,感情及閲人經歷不淺。我喜歡新鮮事物,但也重視留在自己身邊的人事物。

真相可能是殘酷的,但我寧願知多,好過知少。「死心塌地」去對一樣野或一個人已不是潮流,這個世代訊息萬變,我們已無形地不忠。正因如此,忠誠善良更顯可貴,信任更需要勇氣了。在這世代生存,有時我也不經不覺地成了木頭娃娃或機器人,需要改變去讓自己變得不麻木。

每一刻我都努力地在了解自己,捉摸自己的心思,善待自己。只有如此,我才懂怎樣愛更多的人及這個世界。

寫這個專欄是為了記下自己的感悟,也希望跟我有緣的你會明白我多一些。感恩合十!

People around me always say that if you look at reality through blurry lens, you will be happier. is this true?

I am a person who says yes to opportunities and is curious about the truth. It takes 360 degrees of high intelligence to pretend to be stupid. Smartness has become my habit. I grew up in a busy city like Hong Kong, and I am definitely not a girl who does not understand reality. Since middle school, I realized society and interpersonal relationships are complicated and changeable. It is known as social quality. I studied hard and worked part-time. I had worked more than fifteen different jobs at a young age. I have moderate communication skills, and I have moderate experiences regarding relationships and people-reading. I like new things, but I also value people and things around me.

The truth may be cruel, but I would rather know more than know less. It's no longer the trend to only focus on one field or one person. The message of this generation is changing and we are invisibly unfaithful. For this reason, loyalty and kindness are more valuable, and trust requires courage. In this generation of survival, sometimes I become a wooden doll or robot without knowing it, and I need to change to make myself not numb.

Every moment I try to understand myself, grasp my mind, and treat myself kindly. Only in this way can I know how to love more people and the world.

I wrote this blog to record my feelings, and hope that if you are close to me, you will understand me more. Feeling thankful and grateful!



Tuesday, November 28, 2017

60 Things to Do during My Lifetime

 

Time to update the 60 Things to do achieved by Lilly

10 years ago, I read an article on Yahoo about "50 things to do", I modified the list and responded to those items, adding my own 10 goals.

Here are the list and the 40 things which I have achieved so far :-) Assuming I live forever, I can take it slow and enjoy every bit of the journey more! Keep going! 

1. Set foot on each of the seven continents. Travel around the world. Antarctica might seem like a tough one, but here’s how. Once you’ve reached all seven you can truly call yourself a world traveler. 

L: Africa and the Antarctica are the ones that remained for me to explore as a budget-minded wanderer)

2. Cross a country on a bicycle. A bicycle tour takes some planning, but it beats being separated from a country though a passenger-side window.

L: Not yet using a bicycle though but I have driven a car throughout the whole New Zealand (around the South and North islands)


3. Ride something bigger than a horse. Trekking through the jungle on the back of a two story tall elephant will surely be something you remember forever. 

L: Riding a huge and speedy ostrich in Malaysia at age of 15. 
Would like to try riding elephant and camel soon.

(在馬來西亞騎鴕鳥算不算?馬就當然有騎)
 


4. Live like a local for a month. The experience of visiting native peoples will give you way more insight into another way of life than two years hopping from one backpacker ghetto to the next. 

L: I have lived like a local for at least 10 years in U.S.A, HK and Canton area; and a month in Australia and New Zealand

5. Visit a “real” blues bar in Chicago. What better way to leave music’s commercialism behind and find the soul of the blues?

L: Done in 2016 Chicago Trip.


6. Learn another language. This is definitely a weighty and time-consuming proposition, but there are plenty of resources out there to ease the process.

L: Myself is trilingual (Cantonese, English, Mandarin); had learnt Hakka, Korean and Japanese; Would like to learn more exotic languages depending on where I travel and live.

7. Go heli-skiing. The access to snow and terrain via heli is different (read: better) that anything else you’ll ever experience.

L: Not yet tried. Only took the helicopters a few time as a passenger due to different occasions. 

8. Travel India by train. With its extensive rail network, this mode of transport is the best way to see one of the world’s most colorful and diverse countries.

L: On my list ^^

9. Climb one of the world’s Seven Summits. Climbing mountains is not for the faint-hearted, but everyone has had a dream of standing atop one. 

L: Went to Rocky Mountain in Alberta, Canada and saw the Crowfeet Glacier on top of the Rocky Mountain

10. Dive with a whale shark. Swimming with these gentle giants is among the most powerful wilderness experiences in the world.

L: On my list ^^


11. Participate in a Carnival parade in Brazil. You haven’t had a good night out until you’ve been to the biggest party in a nation of big parties.

L: On my list ^^

12. Dance Tango in Argentina.

L: On my list ^^


13. Surf. It’s not about being a ripper but just catching waves.

L: On my list ^^


14. SCUBA in the Great Barrier Reef. The largest coral reef in the world is a must for dive enthusiasts. It is the world’s most unique aquatic environment. 

L: I experienced Snokeling in the Great Barrier Reef coz I am not a good swimmer :D


15. Publish an article about your travels. Part of traveling is sharing your experiences with others. Plus, getting published might be easier than you think. 

L: THIS BLOG COUNTS! And please check out my travel Youtube channel: 

L: More than a month in the U.S.!

E.g. (1) Won a social enterprise showcase competition to help non profit -Student Voice Project to promote literacy 
(2) "I'm going to College" volunteer at Rose bowl to encourage college education
(3) UCLA one bus one cause volunteer - care for cancer patients
(4) Task captain for assisting elementary education, read to school kids in Los Angeles Unified School District

17. Follow in the footsteps of your favorite travel book. What better guide than a book that inspired you to travel in the first place?

L: I don't really follow any travel guide book because I like first hand experience and share my own stories. By the way, travel books are not as trendy as videos and blogs.

18. Take a bush plane ride into Africa’s interior. These lightly visited regions are filled with unique cultures and diverse wildlife.
 
L: On my list ^^

19. Cross a glacier on foot. Traversing these fast-disappearing natural wonders is an adventure that future generations might not be able to experience. 

L: Visited Glacier on the Rocky

20. Visit the source of one of the world’s great rivers. Great rivers, like the Nile, have humble beginnings.

L: On my list ^^

21. Climb an active volcano. 

L: Yellowstone Volcano in WY, USA; and The volcano in New Zealand


Photo by Lilly

22. Buy a boat and learn to sail. Before the Brothers Wright, everyone traveled by wind power. It’s still the most sustainable way to travel there is.

L: Sailed in Santa Barbara, Marina Del Ray, and Channel Islands (Santa Cluz). Didn't buy a sail boat though.

23. Follow your food from field to table. Most people in the world still eat what they have picked with their own hands. Why not get back to these basics?

L: I did tried handpicking crops and cook in a village of Canton area. Saw chicken and pig got slaughtered to be food. One of my dreams is to have my own garden one day so that I can have organic food supply. I recently like watching youtube channels about Food from field to table.

24. Bathe in the Ganges. What better way to experience the spiritual heart of India?

L: On my list ^^

25. Hold Koala Bear and pad Kangaroo in Australia.

L: Done in 2017 Australia Trip


26. Photograph an endangered species. Aside from an image you can keep for a lifetime, it will remind you, and others, how fragile life can be.

L: Photographed Whale, Dolphin, Elephant, Seals

27. Participate in Burning Man . As they say: “Trying to explain Burning Man to someone who has never been is like trying to explain color to a blind person.”

L: On my list ^^

28. Spend 24 hours alone in the jungle.

L: On my list ^^

29. Learn how to make a national dish. What is the one and only thing that everyone has in common? Eating.

L: Learnt how to make dumplings (Chinese National Dish); Olivia (Persian National Dish); Bibimbob (Korean); Sushi (Japanese); Singaporean Fried Noodles; Steak (British), etc

30. Teach English in a foreign country. Sure, it’s a way to fund your travels, but also the experience of a lifetime. 

L: Taught English at a high school in Mexico

31. Attend a music festival in another country. 

L: Music Festivals in the U.S.(such as blue grass music on Santa Monica Beach 2012, orchestra concert in Hollywood Bowl 2014, and Tylor Swift Concert in Rosw Bowl 2018); San Sebastián Street Festival - Puerto Rico (2020)

32. Cross a country using only public transportation. See a country the way most of its people do: from the window of a bus, train, or ferry. 

L: HK, China, U.S.A, Europe 2017

33. Spend the night in a storied/historic hotel. You might not even have to leave town to experience a night of classic atmosphere.

L: On my list ^^

34. Attend the Olympics. Whatever you say about the commercialism of the Olympic Games, they are one of the biggest events on the planet.

L: On my list ^^

35. Meet your favorite (living) travel writer. They’ve inspired you; now thank them for it.

L: On my list ^^

36.Travel to Germany to experience Love Parade or one of the world’s other big festivals.

L: Participated in Oktoberfest Beer Festival in Munich, Germany. The meeting of over 6 million beer aficionados and drinking song singers is one of the biggest parties in Europe.


37. Partake in a Japanese Tea Ceremony and wear Japanese traditional clothes "Kimono". This timeless tradition is at the heart of Japanese culture.

L: Done in 2017 Japan Kyoto Trip.


38. Join a caravan in the Sahara. See how people can thrive in one of the world’s harshest environments.

L: On my list ^^


39. Explore the landmarks of international cities!

L: Climb to the biggest Buddha in Hong Kong; Visited Berlin, Germany; St.Mark's Square, Venice, Italy; The Bean, Chicago, USA; Fushimi Inari Taisha in Kyoto, Japan; Tsutenkaku and food market in Osaka, Japan; Harbour Bridge in Sydney, Australia

40. Stand at the North or South Pole.

L: On my list ^^

41. Be in the stands when two rival South American club teams play each other in soccer. Soccer (sorry, football) is a passion for most of the world’s population.

L: On my list ^^

42. Visit the birthplace or grave site of a cultural icon. Could be Che Guevara or Picasso or Levi Strauss or the guy who invented widgets; anyone you think is important. 

L: Visited Bruce Lee's grave site in Seattle and visited Picasso's birthplace
 
43. Find your version of “The Beach.” One of the best travel books ever inspired a generation of backpackers. Why not find your own version of untouched paradise? 

L: Pattaya Beach in Thailand 2003; Hot water Beach in North island of New Zealand 2017; Surfer's paradise in Gold Coast, Australia; Bondi Beach in Sydney, Australia; Hot water Beach in NZ where natural Geothermal hotsprings are next to the beach for FREE

44. Enjoy a freshly rolled cigar in Cuba. Taste a hand rolled specialty close to its source.

L: Tasted a cigar but I am not a smoker (went to Puerto Rico next to Cuba and met a Cuban friend)

45. Visit every capital city in Europe. The crowded continent is full of beautiful architecture and diverse cultures. 

L: Working on this goal, visited 15 cities for 10 European countries so far

46. Watch an orchestral performance in Vienna.

L: On my list ^^

47. Skydive. It is the ultimate thrill, unless you add a wingsuit, and actually fly.
Photo by L (San Diego, USA 2014)


48. Bike the Pacific Coast Highway.

L: Done in 2012. See this Driving tour along PCH to Malibu.


49. Shake hands with someone who has truly changed a country. 


L: Shaked hands twice with former U.S. president, Bill Clinton (2011)
50. Participate in the world’s biggest water fight during Thailand’s New Year’s festivities (Songkran). 

L: Visited there at age of 12, personal favorite activities in Thailand - Parasailing, watching shows in Bangkok, swimming at beautiful Pattaya, and having Thai massage
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Lilly's Additional Things to Do in your lifetime:

51. Ate and touched scary animals 

L: Ate fried Scorpion skewer in Beijing and Snake in China; Held a hairy spider in USA; ate crocodile meat in Cairns, Australia, and fried grasshopper in Thailand ( Disclaimer: I am Not advocating to eat wild animals because they might be danger to health, just sharing my personal experience)

52. Joined a cooking video contest and win a prize.

53. Performed on stage alone in front of more than 1,000 audience. 

L: e.g. UCLA graduation ceremony performance; Hanbok fusion dress fashion show

54. Gained experience in a corporation with 10,000+ employees to promote energy efficiency (SoCalGas).

55. Graduated from a prestigious university.

56. Tried different seasonal sports/outdoor activities: snowboarding, skiing, ziplining, kayaking, golfing, enjoying outdoor hot springs, etc 

e.g. Skiing at Mount Baldy, CA; Snowboarding at Steven Pass, Washington; Kayaking near Santa Barbara, CA; Enjoying natural hot springs near Mammoth

Ziplining at Catalina Island



57. Gun Shooting


58. Watched U.S.A sports games in live. 
e.g. Watching UCLA football game (American Football); Watching NBA Basketball game; Watching Dodgers Baseball game - I enjoyed the dodgers hotdog :P

59. Experienced different landscapes and seasons.
e.g. Fall at Dead Valley Sand Dunes, CA; Summer in Palm Springs, CA; Making snowman in winter; Looking at beautiful falling leaves and changing colors in Yale University; Buried by beautiful daffodils and tulips in Skagit Valley, Washington (World's 2nd biggest tulip town besides Holland)


60. Visited the Great Wall in China.
 
What are your things to do? Drop a comment below to let me know ^^ 
 
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