When you find someone you want to believe and love wholeheartedly, go for it. I’m not saying that you don’t do due diligence. Do your due diligence and trust 100%. At the end of the day, you got nothing to lose. If the person proves that himself/herself worth your trust, you win; if not, you still win, because you have given love to the person without expecting any rewards. That’s the highest practice for love. If that trust costs some money, then so be it, money is nothing but a tool, depending on how we use it. The goal is feeling happy and healthy!
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Wednesday, August 15, 2018
Don’t be afraid to trust
When you find someone you want to believe and love wholeheartedly, go for it. I’m not saying that you don’t do due diligence. Do your due diligence and trust 100%. At the end of the day, you got nothing to lose. If the person proves that himself/herself worth your trust, you win; if not, you still win, because you have given love to the person without expecting any rewards. That’s the highest practice for love. If that trust costs some money, then so be it, money is nothing but a tool, depending on how we use it. The goal is feeling happy and healthy!
Monday, April 9, 2018
Story Tellers
There’re always two sides of a story so be more understanding and less judgmental.
The purpose of life is to fully extend our potentials and have as few regrets as possible!


The purpose of life is to fully extend our potentials and have as few regrets as possible!
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Tuesday, March 20, 2018
Positive thinking
Saturday, February 24, 2018
真相 Truth
(Chinese/English Below)
我身邊的人們總説看世糊塗一點,你就會快樂一點。這是真的嗎?
我是個對機會說好及對真相好奇的人。要裝傻實在需要360度的高智能。精明變成我的習慣,在香港這繁忙城市長大的我絕對不是一個懞懂的女孩。初中從同學們的人際關係中已知社會品流複雜多變。努力半工半讀的我也年紀輕輕打過超出十五份工,工作交際能力中等,感情及閲人經歷不淺。我喜歡新鮮事物,但也重視留在自己身邊的人事物。
真相可能是殘酷的,但我寧願知多,好過知少。「死心塌地」去對一樣野或一個人已不是潮流,這個世代訊息萬變,我們已無形地不忠。正因如此,忠誠善良更顯可貴,信任更需要勇氣了。在這世代生存,有時我也不經不覺地成了木頭娃娃或機器人,需要改變去讓自己變得不麻木。
每一刻我都努力地在了解自己,捉摸自己的心思,善待自己。只有如此,我才懂怎樣愛更多的人及這個世界。
寫這個專欄是為了記下自己的感悟,也希望跟我有緣的你會明白我多一些。感恩合十!
People around me always say that if you look at reality through blurry lens, you will be happier. is this true?
I am a person who says yes to opportunities and is curious about the truth. It takes 360 degrees of high intelligence to pretend to be stupid. Smartness has become my habit. I grew up in a busy city like Hong Kong, and I am definitely not a girl who does not understand reality. Since middle school, I realized society and interpersonal relationships are complicated and changeable. It is known as social quality. I studied hard and worked part-time. I had worked more than fifteen different jobs at a young age. I have moderate communication skills, and I have moderate experiences regarding relationships and people-reading. I like new things, but I also value people and things around me.
The truth may be cruel, but I would rather know more than know less. It's no longer the trend to only focus on one field or one person. The message of this generation is changing and we are invisibly unfaithful. For this reason, loyalty and kindness are more valuable, and trust requires courage. In this generation of survival, sometimes I become a wooden doll or robot without knowing it, and I need to change to make myself not numb.
Every moment I try to understand myself, grasp my mind, and treat myself kindly. Only in this way can I know how to love more people and the world.
I wrote this blog to record my feelings, and hope that if you are close to me, you will understand me more. Feeling thankful and grateful!
Monday, May 15, 2017
SPCC
St. Paul's Coeducational College (SPCC) - an awesome school that I spent my age of 11-18 there.
This centenary school has taught me many things - how to swim, sing, dance, learn, volunteer, be confident, and be a leader. My fellow schoolmate Jason created the following song to celebrate the graduation class of 2014 and filmed every remarkable corners of the school, bringing me back to memories :) Hope you enjoy it as well!
https://youtu.be/ItFS25fZ3hY
Thursday, December 17, 2015
Stay Positive!!
Be happy, stay positive!!
You can do it!! Say a positive thing twenty times to yourself when you are feeling down. Your subconscious mind will sense it and brighten your mood!
Set short and simple goals and achieve them, then you'll feel happier about yourself.
If you try to achieve a big and challenging goal but you are not running while everyone else is running to achieve it, you'll feel frustrated. If so, there are two options: either you set a lower expectation that you can walk to meet it, or you keep a high expectation but make sure you run and be aggressive enough to satisfy it.
You can do it!! Say a positive thing twenty times to yourself when you are feeling down. Your subconscious mind will sense it and brighten your mood!
Set short and simple goals and achieve them, then you'll feel happier about yourself.
If you try to achieve a big and challenging goal but you are not running while everyone else is running to achieve it, you'll feel frustrated. If so, there are two options: either you set a lower expectation that you can walk to meet it, or you keep a high expectation but make sure you run and be aggressive enough to satisfy it.
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Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Please "Like" our cooking video on Youtube
Hi everyone, ^^
Sharon and I join the cooking contest on youtube which calls "Delicious Seoul Story".
There are 3 ways to support us to win the contest:
1. Click "like" on our video and invite your friends to like it as well. (Need to login either your gmail/ youtube acc to "like" it)
2. Refresh/ click the video for multiple times to increase the number of views. (Invite your friends too)
3. Leave a comment on our video response
40% of score depends on no. of "likes" and "views",
60% of score will be based on judges
Last year, we joined the contest (search "juk of love" on youtube). Although we did not win, we would like to try it again this year. Your "likes" and views" mean a lot to us. We really want to win the contest and get a free trip to Korea to join the final round of cooking contest over there.
Please help spread the words and "Share" it on your facebook. Thank you! :) The event is from NOW till August 17th.
Sharon and I join the cooking contest on youtube which calls "Delicious Seoul Story".
There are 3 ways to support us to win the contest:
1. Click "like" on our video and invite your friends to like it as well. (Need to login either your gmail/ youtube acc to "like" it)
2. Refresh/ click the video for multiple times to increase the number of views. (Invite your friends too)
3. Leave a comment on our video response
40% of score depends on no. of "likes" and "views",
60% of score will be based on judges
Last year, we joined the contest (search "juk of love" on youtube). Although we did not win, we would like to try it again this year. Your "likes" and views" mean a lot to us. We really want to win the contest and get a free trip to Korea to join the final round of cooking contest over there.
Please help spread the words and "Share" it on your facebook. Thank you! :) The event is from NOW till August 17th.
Sunday, October 23, 2011
True friendships
Real vs. ordinary
An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders for you to rely on.
An ordinary friend does not know your parents' last name. A real friend has their phone numbers in the address book.
An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A real friend will come to help you prepare early and leave later to help you clean.
An ordinary friend hates you calling after he has fallen asleep. A real friend will appreciate you call no matter what moment.
An ordinary friend asks you to talk about your troubles. A true friend is looking for you to solve your problems.
An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to share your stories.
An ordinary friend visits like a guest. A real friend will open the refrigerator to take things by himself/herself.
An ordinary friend thinks that friendship is over after an argument. A true friend understands that when you haven't fought, it is not true friendship.
An ordinary friend expects you to stay with him/her forever. A true friend expects him/her to be by your side forever!
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Monday, July 18, 2011
影子隨想 Shadow Thought
不管是日曬雨淋,黑夜白晝,或是快樂哀愁,總是有你默默地守護著我,貼身地跟隨著我。 看見你一天一天變高, 由昔日矮小的瘦皮猴,變成今天亭亭玉立的lady,心存感恩。你是我一生的好夥伴^^
Whether it's the sunny or rainy, night or day, joy or sorrow, you’re always here silently guarding me and following me closely. I am grateful to see you growing taller day by day, from the skinny monkey of the past to the slim lady of today. My Shadow, you are a good friend of my life ^^
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Sunday, July 10, 2011
感動 Touching Feeling
這陣子讓我感動的時刻一浪接一浪, 眼淚不自覺地暗湧出來。 從來都自覺是個眼淺的人,對別人悲哀的一言一語,都像感同身受般觸發起心如刀割之感,劇情的思緒情感也在腦內回轉千百回*
該慶倖自己還沒被成長磨合成木頭人或雪人, 到日後投身社會, 也能保持這一絲純真的感動嗎?
The moments that touched me, wave after wave, causing my tears came out unconsciously. I have always felt that I am a crybaby (shallow-eyed person), and the words of sorrow from others trigger my feeling like a knife to my heart, feeling the same way as others.
It should be fortunate that I haven't been grown into a wooden man or a snowman. Will I still be able to keep this pure touching feeling when I join the society in the future?
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Saturday, January 15, 2011
To Ladies*

An encouraging and meaningful message to all ladies=):
1. No matter how good this man in front of you is, if he doesn’t love you, this is his biggest shortcoming which you can never change.
2. Do not cry when breaking up. Of course, it's not that you don't cry at all. In front of him, don't cry, but back in the ground, you could cry as much as you want.
3. The biggest shortcoming of a person is not selfishness, brutality, and willfulness, but stubbornness for loving a person who does not love you.
4. No matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your conditions are, there are always people who do not love you.
5. The only way to seize a man should be, never let him be satisfied.
6. No matter how pretty you dress, no matter how expensive you wear, that's just a guise. A coat made with kindness is the true beauty.
7. If we blame love for hurting us, then may I ask, did you nod at the beginning to accept that love to come?
8. Grievances that can be spoken are not grievances. Those “lovers” who leave you are not considered your true love.
9. It is a kind of happiness to be able to hold a touch of sadness that cannot be taken away by time.
10. Human is always a lonely creature with ego. No matter how you sincerely speak your love, there will always be a moment that your heart cannot be understood.
11. Be neither modest nor arrogant, face everything with calmness and elegance.
12. A person, if he is not free, it is because he does not want to be free; a person, if he cannot walk away, it is because he does not want to walk away;
a person, if he has too many excuses for you, it is because he does not want to care.
13. Sometimes, things are subjective that cannot be explained. If you think it's worth it, then it's worth it; if you don't think it's worth it, even others say the opposite, you still feel it’s not worth it.
14. To understand the truth, men easily like a person, but will not easily fall in love with a person.
15. Woman, when in love, is like being isolated from the world.
16. On calm days, leave and cherish some space for yourself, some space for your partner, and some beauty for distance.
17. Sometimes don't worry too much. Men are a little bit clunky. Forgetting one thing doesn't mean he doesn't love you, don't scare yourself.
18. Women often like to confess their hearts, while men do the opposite.
19. Sometimes, learn to treat disappointment as a gain, because disappointment could be the byproduct of expectation.
20. Don't deliberately try to change whoever, because no one can change whoever, only if, he (whoever) is willing to change for you.
21. By time, you can understand love, you can prove love, you can also overturn love.
22. Freedom is precious, but tens of thousands of people are using freedom in exchange for love every day.
23. You can have vanity, because that is the nature of women, but don't let yourself become a tool for adding vanity to others.
24. Don't say that there is no good man in this world, don't remember and hate the person who abandoned you, after all, he had loved you. Forgiveness will make you more beautiful.
25. Don't be curious and don't care what his current girlfriend looks like. How is her figure? You're just making trouble for yourself like this.
26. Whatever you said must be done, even if it is stupid, it is better than words without credibility.
27. Don't make a decision when you’re angry and crying, you will regret it.
28. He said, “I am tired, let me calm down and take a break for a while, okay?” You say yes, because he came to inform you, not to get your consent.
29. You are pure then so be it, if you pretend to be pure, it is uglier than ugly, understand?
30. Not all efforts will succeed, but without effort, you will not succeed.
31. Girls must love themselves. No matter how much blow you encounter, no matter how bad the situation you face, don’t deprave yourself. The more you don't love yourself, the more nobody loves you.
32. Beauty, wisdom, money, and many other things are doomed by nature. Don’t try to change using your jealousy.
33. Be careful! Jealousy, hatred, and revenge are just tricks. It doesn't matter if you want to play these tricks, it's about not being discovered.
34. Set your mind, don't be sad when you lose things, you should be thinking like this, he does not belong to you.
35. Try to be an elegant woman, don't be pretentious, because pretentious women are not only hated by women, but also by men.
36. Independence, forever. No matter, emotionally or financially.
37. Um ... On what occasions do you not believe in a man? In bed, when he is happy, when he asks for you to do him a favour, and when he makes mistakes.
38. Don't try your best to show off to many people that you have many boyfriends or male friends. Because others will not envy you, they will just despise you.
39. Don't ask all day, do you love me? By the time when you ask, he doesn't love you anymore.
40. Under 20 years old, if you believe in idol drama, so be it. Over 20 years old, you still believe in idol drama, then it's over.
41. To know whether a man is good or bad, it’s not depending on his monogamy or not. Since ancient times, men have many dedications (I.e. Flower heart in Chinese), it’s depending on whether a man has self control or not.
42. Brave women are always more beautiful than coward women. If, your lover does not love you, I advise you to be brave and separate, better than cowardly entangled.
43. A woman who is good at compromise is precious. However, women who are only good at compromising are cheap.
44. Don’t be an overwhelming female; be a wise and strong woman.
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