Showing posts with label maturity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label maturity. Show all posts

Monday, May 11, 2020

Waking Up

photo by Lilly

Some people might hope that, in their own lives, someone would appear like a lamp who can give one or two advises of guidance to them about life.

After experiencing the ups and downs of life, I discovered that much of the wisdom of life is actually hidden in the bits and pieces of life.

If the rooster calls the sky, it will shine. If the rooster does not call the sky, it will still shine. The key is not if the rooster has called the sky to shine, the key is that who has waken up from the call. 

When one wakes up, a day is passed; when one does not wake up, a whole life is passed.

Comprehension:

Waking up every day is a new life.

Living healthy is the most important and happiest thing in the world.
Take advantage of the sunshine, go out for a walk! The grass, the trees, the flowers and the birds in this world are all beautiful. Don't let this wonderful time pass.
 
#healthandhappiness #life wisdom
 
 
Here are some songs I made to brighten your day!
 

 
 

 

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Thursday, March 8, 2018

Maturity

Maturity is the ability to accept ambiguity and to postpone gratification - quoted from Sigmund Freud @ Kantaro Sweet tooth Salary Man :)

Tuesday, December 26, 2017

2017 大事回顾 2017 Reflections (Chin/Eng)

 


 

距离2018年还有五天,不知道今年的你有什么改变呢?

我就选择了一条新的路. 可以说让自己过了写意的一年.

年初的时候, 反思税务所的工作, 我觉得繁多的数据处理是将会被人工智能取代的.

我想尽早的发展自己的其他强项例如管理,顾客服务,沟通,和创作, 学习新事物, 挑战自己.

人生是充满希望的! 虽然人生不如意事十常八九, 但是我们的勇气,情商,和智慧会带领我们冲破难关.

There are five days left towards 2018. I don't know what changes have you made this year?

I chose a new way. It can be said that let me have a free year.

At the beginning of the year, to reflect on the work of the tax office, I think that a lot of data processing will be replaced by artificial intelligence.

I want to develop my other strengths as soon as possible such as management, customer service, communication, creation, learning new things, and challenging myself.

Life is full of hope! Although life is not always satisfactory, our courage, emotional intelligence, and wisdom will lead us through the difficulties.
 
Stay dreamy,
Lilly @Lilchancart 
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Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Most Pitiful Breakup


 
 
 
It's never a pity to break up for money, not to mention only for the 100,000 lottery winnings. I dare to say that, if you don't break up, you will definitely lose more than the current loss soon. The real pity is to break up for love, but you still have to break up when you are still in love. You have a hard time to say, and you can’t argue. You can only kill your front teeth and swallow the blood. This breakup is really a pity.
 
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Sunday, April 23, 2017

Implementing dreams

My childhood dream is about to becoming more true!! I still remember when my high school Psychology teacher asked us, 'What're your dreams?' My classmates answered occupations like doctor, teacher, scientist, artist, etc. However, I replied, 'I want to be a world traveler'. Looking at the map, there're around 190 countries in the world and I wanted to visit as many of them as possible in my lifetime. One of my classmates listened to my answer and teased me, 'Wow, Lillian, you have already thought about retiring plan?' I laughed and everyone in the class laughed too. NO, we don't need to wait to travel until we get old and wealthy. We can dream big and start small, most importantly, start now.

I'm very excited to save up $$ and go traveling around the world. Of course it'll take some time to arrange and implement between work, family, and travel. My goal is to achieve it in five years to finish stepping on the seven continents. By doing that, I aim at experiencing various cultures, documenting inspirations/business ideas, discovering myself, and becoming more open-minded.

Traveling certainly brings me happiness, fulfillment, and opportunities. I always agree that education and travel are two of the greatest investments of my money and time in life. Growing up in Asia and living in N. America, I have checked out two wonderful 'continents' (can't find any other synonyms for this word..). My next goal is Europe -> Asia -> Australia. I have many interests but traveling is my biggest passion. I enjoy finding ways to spend the least but to see the most.

My another goal is contributing the best I can to the societies and communities. I want to volunteer in numerous places and meet different people. Then, I can call it 'my life'!





Thursday, January 12, 2017

2016 大事回顧 2016 Self Reflections (Chin/Eng)

 


 

轉眼間,一年又過去了。

我的記憶力有限,只記着好事:

1)増進了知識及人生智慧
2)事業新方向及發展
3)遊历了新地方,也首次試了一个人的旅行

前面的路仍長,也会有新難关及挑战, 我相信自己能堅毅不屈的努力前行。
凡事平常心面对!


In a flash, a year passed. My memory is limited and I only remember good things:
1) Increased knowledge and wisdom of life
2) New business direction and development
3) I visited a new place and tried a solo trip for the first time
The road ahead is still long, and there will be new difficulties and challenges. I believe I can move forward with determination and perseverance. Face everything with ordinarily calm heart!
 
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Thursday, December 17, 2015

Stay Positive!!

 

 


Be happy, stay positive!!

You can do it!! Say a positive thing twenty times to yourself when you are feeling down. Your subconscious mind will sense it and brighten your mood!

Set short and simple goals and achieve them, then you'll feel happier about yourself.

If you try to achieve a big and challenging goal but you are not running while everyone else is running to achieve it, you'll feel frustrated. If so, there are two options: either you set a lower expectation that you can walk to meet it, or you keep a high expectation but make sure you run and be aggressive enough to satisfy it.

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Sunday, December 6, 2015

2015 Highlights

HOME SWEET HOME


Mom's visit Apr - July 2015


My dearest sis became a college grad!


Growing up a lot


Working hard at my firm!


A year is passing soon. Make it count!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

True friendships


 


 

A message to share about friendship

Real vs. ordinary
An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders for you to rely on.

An ordinary friend does not know your parents' last name. A real friend has their phone numbers in the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A real friend will come to help you prepare early and leave later to help you clean.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he has fallen asleep. A real friend will appreciate you call no matter what moment.

An ordinary friend asks you to talk about your troubles. A true friend is looking for you to solve your problems.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to share your stories.

An ordinary friend visits like a guest. A real friend will open the refrigerator to take things by himself/herself.

An ordinary friend thinks that friendship is over after an argument. A true friend understands that when you haven't fought, it is not true friendship.

An ordinary friend expects you to stay with him/her forever. A true friend expects him/her to be by your side forever!
 
 

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Saturday, August 20, 2011

幸福 Happiness



“幸福不是你房子有多大 ,而是房子里的笑声有多甜.
幸福不是你开多豪华的车 ,而是你开着车平安到家.
幸福不是你的爱人有多漂亮 , 而是爱人的笑容有多灿烂.”

小时侯,幸福是一件东西,拥有就幸福;长大后,幸福是一个目标,达到就幸福;成熟后,发现幸福原来是一种心态,领悟就幸福。                       ---from 时尚小资馆。

幸福,没有捷径, 只有经营                       ----范范的“最重要的决定”。

就我来说,小时候有父母,老师,大人们的赞美,就觉得乐翻天;
长大后,为了追求美好的生活条件而努力,似乎是达到的话就会满足,
但是发现原来智慧就已经为我带来了心灵上的幸福, 因为心中有人性的爱。 
前两个阶段只是局限于被爱,我猜到年纪大了,可以有更大的能力去爱人和帮人, 该会得到更大的喜乐吧! 

"Happiness is not how big your house is, but how sweet the laughter in the house is. Happiness is not about how luxurious the car you drive, but that you drive home safely.
Happiness is not how beautiful your lover is, but how bright your lover's smile is. "

When I was young, happiness is a thing, and happiness comes from having it; when I grow up, happiness is a goal, and happiness is achieved; after maturity, I find that happiness turns out to be a state of mind, and understanding leads to happiness. --- from Fashion Petty Museum.

Happiness, no shortcuts, only building and managing -Fan Fan's "most important decision".


As far as I am concerned, when I was a child, I felt happy when there were parents, teachers, and adults who complimented me. When I grow up, I worked hard to pursue a better living condition. It seemed to be achieved, I was satisfied. But I discovered that wisdom has brought me happiness in my heart, because there is the love of the humanity in my heart. The first two stages are limited to being loved. I guess when you are older, you can have a greater ability to love and help others. You will get more joy!

Sunday, July 10, 2011

感動 Touching Feeling


這陣子讓我感動的時刻一浪接一浪, 眼淚不自覺地暗湧出來。 從來都自覺是個眼淺的人,對別人悲哀的一言一語,都像感同身受般觸發起心如刀割之感,劇情的思緒情感也在腦內回轉千百回*

該慶倖自己還沒被成長磨合成木頭人或雪人, 到日後投身社會, 也能保持這一絲純真的感動嗎?

The moments that touched me, wave after wave, causing my tears came out unconsciously. I have always felt that I am a crybaby (shallow-eyed person), and the words of sorrow from others trigger my feeling like a knife to my heart, feeling the same way as others. 

It should be fortunate that I haven't been grown into a wooden man or a snowman. Will I still be able to keep this pure touching feeling when I join the society in the future?