妻比夫瘦 Wife is thinner than her husband

The secret of a happy marriage is probably not complicated: as long as the wife is thinner than her husband. A new study points out that if a woman ’s body mass index (BMI) is lower than that of her partner, both partners will be happier and more likely to maintain a happy marriage. Relativity of body weight Researchers from the University of Tennessee selected 169 couples under the age of 35 to fill in the questionnaire every 6 months for 4 years. The study found that men with a higher BMI (weight (kg) divided by height (m) squared) than their wives are happier in marriage; and women with a lower BMI than their husbands are significantly happier than other women. Researchers believe that this is because men generally believe that slim partners are more attractive, and are therefore willing to maintain relationships; slim women will feel that partners still love themselves, are more confident and feel loved, and are therefore happier. Researchers speculate that men pay more attention to their partners' appearance and weight than women, and their husband's dissatisfaction with body shape may appear at the beginning of the marriage, which makes his wife increasingly unhappy. However, the results of the study show that the main influence on the relationship between the couple is relative weight. Women with different body types can have a happy relationship as long as they find a suitable partner. It is not necessary to be slim. Experts also pointed out that men are more capable in marriage, such as income, education, height or weight, which will make women feel more secure and both men and women will be happier.

影子隨想 Shadow Thought

不管是日曬雨淋，黑夜白晝，或是快樂哀愁，總是有你默默地守護著我，貼身地跟隨著我。 看見你一天一天變高， 由昔日矮小的瘦皮猴，變成今天亭亭玉立的lady，心存感恩。你是我一生的好夥伴^^

Whether it's the sunny or rainy, night or day, joy or sorrow, you’re always here silently guarding me and following me closely. I am grateful to see you growing taller day by day, from the skinny monkey of the past to the slim lady of today. My Shadow, you are a good friend of my life ^^

感動 Touching Feeling

這陣子讓我感動的時刻一浪接一浪， 眼淚不自覺地暗湧出來。 從來都自覺是個眼淺的人，對別人悲哀的一言一語，都像感同身受般觸發起心如刀割之感，劇情的思緒情感也在腦內回轉千百回*

該慶倖自己還沒被成長磨合成木頭人或雪人， 到日後投身社會， 也能保持這一絲純真的感動嗎?

The moments that touched me, wave after wave, causing my tears came out unconsciously. I have always felt that I am a crybaby (shallow-eyed person), and the words of sorrow from others trigger my feeling like a knife to my heart, feeling the same way as others. 

It should be fortunate that I haven't been grown into a wooden man or a snowman. Will I still be able to keep this pure touching feeling when I join the society in the future?

色香味 Vision, Smell, Taste

爱情是

-山水墨画的红色----譲脑袋涂上惊喜万分的色彩。

-撩动神经的香薰----令皮肤渗入像迷幻般的余香。

-呆板生活的味精----为心情添上百感交集的滋味。

Love is

-(Vision) The red color of a black and white landscape ink painting, painted mind with surprising colors.

-(Smell) A fragrance that stimulates the nerves, making the skin permeate into a psychedelic aftertaste.

-(Taste) The monosodium glutamate of life, adding a mixed feeling to the mood.

Poem Created by Lee Man

Silence

Sometimes being silent and inactive seem good. Escape from troubles.